Dear Folks -
One of the things that causes us much suffering in life lies in all the energy we expend to "stay in control." No one like to lose control. The fact is, however, that there are process in life that carry us along toward our inevitable end. To ignore this or to try to sidestep it leads to our missing out on "life as it is." What is needed for the living of life is a non-dual way of living. Without this we will inevitably become people full of judgment, blame and anger.
That, to the best of my ability, is a hint of what I talked about in Ordinary Life this week. A copy of the text I used is below.